Well We broke up about 2 months ago…Here are the facts
-Great relationship (she has a son who adored me)
-Were involved in eachothers family
-Together for 21 months
-Absolute best friends…would always talk and share our lives..different than any other relationship we both have had.
-Both in our late 20′s
-I have poured my heart and soul as well as help her out with money issues and groceries and diapers when she needed it (she never asked)
-She still uses my cell phone under my account, even though she has her own (some people say because she cannot let go)
-she has ALL of her stuff at my house (we did not live together but her personal stuff was kept in storage at my house from when she moved after her divorce)
-her ex hates me and will do anything to ruin our relationship and do anything to ruin her.
-The ex is engaged and has a kid with another woman. Her and the ex have been seperated for over 2 years now.
The bottom line is the ex threw a custody battle on my GF (or ex, whatever she is now) She is scared to death of loosing her son since the ex has money and has taken everything else away from her through this divorce. I was the closest person in her life no doubt. She called on the way to work, on the way home, during, always valued my advice, told everyone she loved me and I was her best friend/ lover etc. We had a close relationship, but when this started getting real bad (the evaluation) and the ex started jerking around with alimony and what not, she took all her frustration out on me. She was mean and nasty to me, and I did nothing. She majorly pushed me away and was someone that I have never seen before. I tried to understand and say that it was all because of this rough time, but I dont get how out of no where she became nasty to me. Why can she see and hang out with anyone else, frineds, family, but not me? It is all weird, I even stopped by and dropped off gift cards etc to her to help her out, to try and be that good guy, but it seemed the nicer I was the meaner she was? Weird because she is a kind caring person who loved me, I mean 2 weeks before we broke up it was Valentines day and it was perfect, she wrote this gushy card and I love you cake, etc…I am baffled and so is my family…
4 weeks ago I sia dI would rather not talk to her for now while this stuff is going on, and I would contact her in a month or so. I am amazed that she has not reached out to me yet…..So my question is for women who have pushed away the closest person in there life, the person who did the most and was there the most….does this make sense to any other woman out there. I sist home and I am missing her soo much, is she forcing herself not to contact me…its all weird, because honestly I did nothing wrong, except maybe smother her with my help…but I have backed off and not contacted her. She is not seeing any othert men,, and like I said uses my cell phone and has her stuff at my place. Everyone has told me she will snap out of it and contact me eventually…every one is posotive that knows the situation, but I need to understand a little better if anyone can help that maybe has done this or been in this situation… Thank you all for you help, I will wait for her I will, I just need a womans advice….. thanks
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